Tuesday, November 9, 2010

BULLING!!!

No pictures to go with this post! HaiLee has had a bully since 1st grade, I have done everything to help her through it because we all have had one at one point or another. I still know my bully not to mention any names but Kristen Herron. I have went to HaiLees bully's house a couple of times to talk to her grandparents whom she lives with and told HaiLee to kill her with kindness, you name it. Last year her bully went to another school but ended up being on the same basketball team as her. HaiLee was afraid and didn't like to go to practice or the games. I even saw if first hand this time on the physical abuse and emotional abuse that HaiLee had to go through. This year her Bully is back in her school and so she is living with it every day again. With all of the media attention i am finally putting a stop to being bullied. HaiLee didn't want to sign up for basketball this year again for being afraid her bully would be on her team again. i told her you would rather be on her team that apposing teams but still not want to do any activities and such because of it is sad. So notified her school and had a document in her file about it so that no matter what school she goes to it will be in there and there is a history of her being a bully. If your kids are being bullied speak up for them. I didn't and tried to go around it so that HaiLee could approach it differently and knowing deep down it would continue and once i took care of it through the school HaiLee has came to me and said she feel like a weight has been lifted of her shoulder that she doest have to deal with a bully on a daily basis. I wish i would have put a stop to it sooner. Please speak to your children if they are being bullied or the bully. No one wins in the situation!!! Be Kind to one another!!!

Halloween

Treavor took the picture of us :)